Well this is terrible. I’ve just realized that what I’m good at is finding sales and brand name products for the best prices. I found a Zac Posen iconic eartha medium handbag for $70 brand new at tjmaxx. That price costs $550 new or when it went on sale at ASOS £235.00. How crazy is that? I found a free rug today that still has the price tag on it (originally cost $49.99). I have found many a thing and well now I have rebranded my instagram to show my shopping bargain finds. I’m not sure this will be the best for my shopping addiction but if I have something that I love to do and can share it with other people or when there are sales maybe I can find more people like me. Those who want to have nice, luxurious things but at the same time not break the bank, those who want to look like a million bucks but can’t/don’t want to break the bank (hey, I’m not judging you if you do break the bank trust me I’ve been there but have learned I cannot handle it). If anyone wants to check it out it’s @black_hat_andrea
(skip to 4th paragraph if you just want a brief overview) Why do I buy things I find at a ridiculously good price? Because it makes me feel smart about my money and getting what I want at the same price. It is almost like I am hunting and my prey is the bargain as cheesy as that sounds there is a high that goes with getting the best deal possible. This can be problematic when you become a hoarder or you overspend. I have a problem. I have had to unfollow certain pages where I know I am more tempted to buy cheap used but relatively good quality items. But man is it hard.
I find that when I buy an item it gives me a rush, a sense of belonging. Shopping relieves my loneliness if only for a bit. Whether it be furniture, clothes or my lastest obsession, thrifting designer goods, I easily become obsessed and it is actually difficult for me to stop if I do not realize that it is an obsession and wrong for me (not saying there is wrong with how other people want to spend their money, they earn it and therefore they get to choose how to spend it) to spend all of my money on shoes, or clothes or handbags.
I am actually trying to distance myself from temptations and concentrate on work, on research, on writing, other outlets for my loneliness instead of spending what could be my savings.
Shopaholics shop in most case because they feel better when shopping. I, for example, get a high from going out and getting anything at all. Maybe you shop to fit in, or shop to be different, get compliments, be ahead of the curve, but next time you go out ask yourself these three questions:
- Does this make me feel like I could take on the world?
- Does this fit in my budget?
- Would I “die” without it?
If you answered yes to all three then go for it! Just remember that you should never spend more than you can and that a nice, clean closet usually leads to a feeling of being put together and if you have a closet or home full of things you adore. Maybe this experience for me will lead me towards a closet I am proud of, a home that is organized and clean and a less cluttered life.
Shopping. What every woman and girl loves to do. For me though, what exhilarates me and gets my heart pumping is bargain shopping and of course sales. I mean, of course, who wouldn’t love to drop $1,000 on a pair of shoes or a handbag? Don’t get me wrong. I splurge every once in a while, it’s just I can’t afford to do it every single time. For example, today I bought 4 shirts and 1 dress all for a little over $15. Oh, and the best part? They are all from Gap. Gap is one of my favorite brands because their clothes and jeans are oh so comfortable and inexpensive. Especially when they have deals that are practically steals! From American Eagle I got the greyish shirt for only $8. I know, I know, that’s not as good as the Gap deal but it’s still pretty good. I also got 5 hand sanitizers for $4 and the little hand sanitizer holder for $4 due to a 20% coupon from Bath and Body Works I had. Okay, well, that’s all I got. I am kind of tired today so I won’t ramble much. Thanks for listening.
Until next time,